Secrets to the Successful Affair: A how-to manual of advanced strategies for men is the man's guide to the tactics, techniques, do's and don'ts for a successful affair in the 21st century. The book features an exclusive, unbiased evaluation of top, selected married-but-dating websites, checklists for planning and preparation, discussions of when and when not to consider an affair, and other need-to-know information. The book provides must-have operating manual for those men who choose to consider or pursue extramarital relationships. The book goes into much greater depth than outdated "don't get lipstick on your collar" lists and advice. The author does not promote extramarital relationships, rather he discusses the practical matters of conducting such a relationship so that those who choose to do so will minimize the chances of that relationship negatively impacting a marriage. Providing insights into both the "why" and the "how," the book is a must-read on a taboo subject of infidelity in action.