Power of Understanding Yourself

Discover your true self and align your life journey around your core beliefs, values and perspective. Designed as both a companion piece to the author's previous book, The Power of Understanding People, and a stand-alone work, The Power of Understanding Yourself provides readers with a blueprint for examining their true purpose and approach to life and a map for achieving greater personal happiness, professional success and self-awareness. It explores personal attributes related to interactive style, diving deeper into the concepts from the author's previous book, provides exercises for exploring how to connect your current life status to a desired future state and encourages readers to engage in a deep exploration of their core values, beliefs, mission and vision to become their best self. Find the key to self-discovery and personal development Uncover your true purpose Use helpful exercises to reveal the best you Develop strategies to maximize your potential The Power of Understanding Yourself is an empowering tool to help you find your best possible self and flourish.

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DAVE MITCHELL is an international speaker, trainer, consultant, writer, sommelier and entrepreneur who has been delighting audiences all over the world with his entertaining style, powerful stories and "laugh and learn" philosophy. Since founding the Leadership Difference, Inc. in 1995, over 350,000 people have attended Dave's "enter-TRAIN-ment" seminars on topics that include leadership, customer service, selling skills, wine education and personal performance enhancement. He has been named Best Speaker of the Year from several organizations and Eagles Talent Speakers Bureau named Dave one of the top 10 best business speakers. Dave is the author of The Power of Understanding People from Wiley.

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Praise for THE POWER OF understanding YOURSELF "Dave's understanding of human behavior is only outmatched by his personality, charm, wisdom and wit.??His ability to connect with individuals, teams and organizations, while truly entertaining them, makes his concepts even more impactful.??Dave cuts to the soul and spirit of the human experience in today's complex business world and immediately connects with his audience. I highly recommend Dave as a speaker, as well as his books, for any individual or group looking to improve the results they aspire to achieve." Brian Bergdoll, svp of sales, BMC Software "Through his training and writing, Dave Mitchell speaks practically and powerfully about the interior work of cultivating one's best self. His offering, firmly grounded in social science, and his comedic approach makes the sometimes-daunting work of personal development more accessible. Dave's unique blend of storytelling and educating creates lasting benefits for individuals and organizations. When you work with Dave, you learn, you laugh and you're inspired to do big work." Elisabeth Sasser, executive vice president, The Sunrock Group, former adjunct professor, Duke University "There is only one Dave Mitchell! Dave is a normal guy, with an extraordinary talent for communicating and a unique style of 'enter-training' his audience. Culture and communication are paramount for any successful organization, and Dave's books and programs will always be included in the toolkit I use to design and implement a successful team spirit. Dave is hilarious and insanely talented, and over the years has become one of my favorite humans!" Brian Keesee, vice president and general manager, PCI Pharma Services "During my career, I've managed organizations and sales forces in the Americas, Europe and India and Dave's training has been extremely valuable to me at every stop. Building cooperative and cohesive teams is not always easy, especially when they are generated through acquisitions, and Dave has helped me tremendously in these efforts. The principles of his training are universal and applicable across all cultures and businesses, which is a must for any successful global organization." Stu Needleman, chief commercial officer, Piramal Pharma Solutions "I have seen Dave's teaching allow people to better understand themselves, enabling the opportunity for good to happen in their lives and improve their relationships with others. Without question, Dave's ability to teach wisdom with humor was an important part of their journey. I continue to use what I learned in Dave's seminars and books." Chris Rucker, chief operating officer, Jordan Health Service

Inhalt
Preface xi

Acknowledgments xv

Part One: The Grape

Chapter 1: Metacognition: The Process of Evaluating The Juice 3

Metacognition versus Self-Awareness 4

Thinking About Our Thoughts 5

Choosing to Extract Me 8

Your Cognitive Schemas Make You Unique 9

Chapter 2: Locus of Control: You Are the Winemaker 13

Delusions, Control, and Disappointment 14

Finding Your Locus of Control 16

Chapter 3: Alignment: From Vine to Bottle 23

Inputs and Outputs 24

Horizontal Alignment 26

Chapter 4: Core Ideology: The Crush of Juice,Stems, Skins, and Seeds 31

Examining Inputs 34

Assessing Your Desired Outputs 36

Identifying Your Core Ideology 42

Vertical Alignment 47

Part Two: The Style

Chapter 5: What's My Style? Shades of Me 51

Understanding Interactive Style 55

Chapter 6: Experts: It's About the Process for Me 63

Meeting the Expert 64

The Behavioral Cues (or lack thereof) of Experts 65

An Expert Is a Wine's Acidity 67

Chapter 7: Romantics: It's About the People for Me 71

Meeting the Romantic 72

Putting Others' Happiness before Your Own 73

Reframing Childhood Trials 74

A Romantic Is a Wine's Sweetness 76

Chapter 8: Masterminds: It's About the Possibilities for Me 79

Meeting the Mastermind 80

Breaking the Rule in Order to Follow the Rule 82

A Mastermind Is a Wine's Fruit 86

Chapter 9: Warriors: It's About the Pace and the Point for Me 89

Meeting the Warrior 90

No Room for Interesting Details 92

A Warrior Is a Wine's Tannin 94

Part Three: The Balance

Chapter 10: Punching Down the Cap: The Pursuit of Balance 99

Finding the Right Balance 100

The Good and Bad of Stress 103

Chapter 11: Punching Down the Expert Style Influence on Me 107

Complementary Versus Contrasting Balance 110

An Expert with a Secondary Romantic (lowest score A column, next-lowest score B column) 111

An Expert with a Secondary Mastermind (lowest score A column, next-lowest score C column) 115

An Expert with a Secondary Warrior (lowest score A column, next-lowest score D column) 119

Extracting Me Worksheet 121

Chapter 12: Punching Down the Romantic Style Influence on Me 123

A Romantic with a Secondary Expert (lowest score B column, second-lowest score A column) 126

A Romantic with a Secondary Mastermind (lowest score B column, second-lowest score C column) 128

A Romantic with a Secondary Warrior (lowest score B column, second-lowest score D column) 131

Extracting Me Worksheet 134

Chapter 13: Punching Down the Mastermind Style Influence on Me 135

A Mastermind with a Secondary Expert (lowest score C column, next-lowest score A column) 138

A Mastermind with a Secondary Romantic (lowest score C column, next-lowest score B column) 142

A Mastermind with a Secondary Warrior (lowest score C column, next-lowest score D column) 143

Extracting Me Worksheet 147

Chapter 14: Punching Down the Warrior Style Influence on Me 149

A Warrior with a Secondary Expert (lowest score D column, next-lowest score A column) 152

A Warrior with a Secondary Romantic (lowest score D column, next-lowest score B column) 154

A Warrior with a Secondary Mastermind (lowest score D column, next-lowest score C column) 157

Extracting Me Worksheet 159

**Chapter 15: An Example of Punching Down Your Own…